Hello Rolf - your wiring must be faulty, as Bruce suggested. Either one or more wires is/are misconnected or, as you speculate, one of the two pressure switches (one located at the left and one at the right lower side of the automatic transmission) could perhaps be stuck in the 'activated' position.
There is a link in one of the threads on the CSS to a Mercedes Dismantler's file that tells you how the wiring to the 3-position solenoid should be connected that may help. It's correct that, with the circuit completed by one of the two switches, the solenoid is activated.
In fact, as you drive the car, the solenoid is continuously activated, meaning the electro-magnet is constantly 'alive' even though, when the car is moving more than a few MPH, it is redundant.
With the power off, the shaft should be movable freely as yours does, no spring-loading or resistance. You definitely want to fix this issue, because it will make driving the car (having it maintain a steady idle putting it from neutral into either reverse or drive) much more pleasurable. See also my earlier posts on this topic, I finally resolved (I hope, fingers crossed) an intermittently malfunctioning switch by having it simply replaced with a new one.
Also got a new CSS, 'just in case' - I figured after some 40 years of constant-activation-while-driving the original one earned its retirement!