I am not an expert on this, but it seems to me that this kind of damage after such a short distance may not be due to slight difference between two types of oils that may be in question here or by wrong camshaft run-in procedure (20min at 2500rpm or so, do not remember exactly).
If I saw it on my engine I would have thought something was fundamentally wrong there, as if valve movement was restricted or something (piece of metal) got between camshaft and rocker...
Also, I am not sure what clearances you set. On cold engine it should be 0.08mm and 0.18mm (230/250SL) and 0.1mm and 0.2mm (280SL), so not exactly double...
Sorry to say, and again, I am not an expert, but the camshaft may be gone... maybe engine needs to be flushed to get rid of metal particles form rocker and shaft...