Good news to report that the Duralast starter from Autozone hooked up nicely, same as the Bosch, and its smaller too! Engine started right up. Problem solved in 1/2 day and most of that was driving 150 miles RT in traffic and stopping for lunch, so I'm chalking this one up as a nice big win.
Yes, I'm going to order a new Bosch as soon as I can find someplace that it's in stock. I gave up after trying 5 or 6 of the usual suspects. I dont expect a rebuilt starter to last that long. I assume the Bosch are new and not "reconditioned"?
...and by the way, with the right tools, you dont need to mess with pulling the cover to the transmission hump from the inside. The new side angle power ratchets are small enough and have enough torque to break loose the starter bolts from underneath. I love tools! I do need a lift though...maybe for Christmas. time for a beer