I have embarked on an adventure - rebuilding long fuel pump for my Ponotn. Yes, I know, it is a long shot, but I thought - if I brake it, it will be my pump broken

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I have two questions:
1. We have the black plastic seal in the pump housing. I have it new to be installed. I noticed its inner diameter is bigger than the shaft of the pump, so it would not seal the shaft. Is it ok? Or I got the wrong part? I do not remember what was the diameter of the one I dismantled. On the other hand I received the parts from a reliable source...
Do not know what to think about it.
2. I have attached picture with the shaft of my pump and parts that go onto it. I had two cap washers there, one of them, I guess, fitted instead of shim (the upper one). Is it correct what I have there? Shall I keep this second cap washer instead of shims?
Please kindly help if I may ask.
Pawel