Naj, I already tried the dish washer soap. At least I know I'm on the right track. I'll use more soap this time.
Gnuface, Hot water to soften it up is a great idea. It certainly should handle the heat.
The new one is definitely softer than the old, of course, but I will give this a try if my next attempt fails.
David, had the old hose off already. It was definitely stiff, maybe even a little crunchy. My t/stat housing did not come off with the hose removed. I'm sure it has never been off in 40 years.
I don't need to remove the thermostat from the housing to remove the housing from the head, do I?
In the mean time, I'm going to attempt again tonight getting that hose on without removing the t/stat housing.
I have a tendency to be very gentle until I get the confidence from you guys to go at it.
The same thing happened with my stuck distributor. It just needed more force (torque in that case).
Now I have more confidence. Thank you.
I'll keep you posted.
Mark